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" If there is one truism in divorce, it's that 'the guy pays.' From alimony to her legal fees to child support, the guy pays. I look forward to the day when the 'equality' women enjoy in education and in the workplace FINALLY trickles down to men in divorce court. Until then, 'The Guy Pays." "

" This hurts man! I feel for him, my ex cheated on me and loved to go out and do drugs and drink all night (while I stayed home with child). Since I am a disabled veteran (and back in school), I could not afford a long court battle when we divorced and had to borrow the money for the attorney I 'did' have. Since It was my word against hers, she got custody and I had to pay her temporary alimony, and of course, continuous child support. I had to move in with my mom. She took up residence in another state and had one her boyfriends move in with her. Now, I can never see my child due to my financial situation(I can never save enough to go see him). I pay her almost my entire paycheck and I heard she was planning a trip to Vegas with boyfriend. I recently filed for bankruptcy and had to take up a family collection to pay for the bankruptcy attorney. I know this has nothing to do with same sex marriage, but still, there is something wrong! "

" obviously this whole marriage should be null and void. She was born a lesbian and married him under false pretense. Now she gets a free check for being an embarrassing chapter in his life, one he has to relive every month. He should be suing her! "

" It's the Republican's fault on this one. You say that same sex marriage isn't the same, then the judge ruled correctly. Until you allow marriage for anyone, this is ruled correctly under the law. It's not right, but neither is denying benefits to people who have dedicated their lives to each other. BTW, you say the same sex marriage isn't the same. That's good because "regular" marriages rarely work. I would hope they wouldn't be the "same". "

" That's stupid. The judge should have let him off the hook. "

" How wrong can the laws get???? Look out your window at the fascist laws that we are forced to live w/ every day. "

" I believe alimony is an insult to us hardworking, independent women. Alimony should be a thing of the past! "

" What an antiquated concept. Child support, fine. But alimony? She should get her lazy rear off the couch and start working for a living like the rest of us. The obvious answer is for the state legislature to ammend the alimony law to include domestic partnerships. Better yet, get rid of it altogether. There can't be more than a couple states who still have it. "

" How wrong can the law get...so many women love to rake their ex's over the coals again and again and again. I know a couple of nurses here in town that have divorced doctors and receive alimony from them...and already live with another doctor who take care of them...just as long as she doesn't remarry she can still get paid by her ex. These type of people are very low and are glorified prostitutes. "

" I agree / She wants her cake and eat it up - Thank God what goes around comes around - wants to live off others? Where is her self respect? "

" I think this is pretty funny. Maybe if her new marriage was legal, then this wouldn't even be an issue. Come on everyone! Jump on the bandwagon...just remember that once interracial marriage was illegal, slavery was legal and women couldn't vote. Times are a'changin! "

" exactly what kind of special treatment do you think women get? is it the lower paying jobs, having to live on welfare cause there is no child support, being the last to get voting rights, or the sexual harrassment we recieve on a daily basis? tell me cause i have a hard time believing i have any special treatment. "

" Had that Court ordered the alimony to stop...that would elevate domestic partnerships to the level of marriage, in the eyes of the law. That is not something the legal system is willing to do at this point. That guy is trapped paying alimony in this situation because that Court does not want to set that precedent. That's the bottom line here. "

" You might add that I'd bet they are listed as beneficiary,insured under each others insurance policy and this poor guy is still getting shafted for being normal. Some states have laws of alienation of affection. Seldom used but if it's in his state he should sue. What a joke our legal systems have become! "

" This is wrong. He must have a gay judge. Same sex marriage does NOT deserve the same reverence and respect as a heteralsexual marriage. What is wrong with people today. She wants her cake and eat it too. She wants her GAY partner, but wants her ex-husband to support them?? And a judge allowed this???? Wow!!!!!! He got taken, big time. "

" why pain when she with other women ,, who are women, and what she doing is wrong agains God . just like pay child support now its women support thats not fair to men "

" poor guy.he is never gonna get a break unless they allow same -sex marriages.oh heck,he is screwed. "

" Oh man, when the day is looking bad, I will remember this guy. Oh, I am so sorry, buddy......good luck. "

" She moved on with her life, why can't he move on with his instead of always have to pay for his ex and her lover. Liberty is dead. "

" no one would disagree with me that if the tables were turned, the woman would no longer have to pay. that's our country. we treat women special, even when they go against human nature and turn gay. "