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Letters to the EditorTuesday, October 16, 2007 12:15 AM CDT
Son with Down syndrome has been a great teacher
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Everyone has many teachers in their lifetime.

God sent our family one of our most important teachers 14 years ago when our fourth child Sam was born.

Sam was born with Down syndrome and many life-threatening medical issues.

Sam is one of the most important teachers in my life and the lives of my husband and children.

Sam has taught us love and compassion, joy, determination, and to respect all human life from conception to natural death. He has taught us not to sweat the small stuff and to be tolerant, patient and kind to everyone. The joy he has spending time with people, sharing a laugh, being supportive and compassionate, seeing an old friend, meeting someone new and serving at Mass are just a few of the things he enjoys.

We were always amazed at the way he found pleasure in the little things, but he taught us that these are the greatest gifts God has given us. Even with his limited speech, he communicates this to us clearly.

I would have never asked for a child with Down syndrome, but God knew what our family needed and he blessed us with Sam. I have never been sorry for this gift and am so happy and grateful for Sam.

Some people see imperfections when they see children and adults with Down syndrome, but if you take time to know them, you will see what God sees - perfection.

Every moment of happiness I have experienced since Sam was born is magnified.

I am forever grateful for the way Sam has enriched my life and the lives of our children and now our grandchildren.

As we celebrate Down syndrome awareness month, please take time to get to know someone with Down syndrome. You too, will be forever blessed by the experience.

MaryAnn Sartoris

Pontiac

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Note: All views and opinions expressed in reader comments are solely those of the individual submitting the comment, and not those of the Pantagraph or its staff.

Mom2two wrote on Nov 5, 2007 9:41 AM:

" wonderful children with Down Syndrome and I couldn't agree more with you!!! "

Caregiver wrote on Oct 17, 2007 6:15 AM:

" CONGRATULATIOS to you MaryAnn for having the care & fortitude to keep your precious Sam at home. I learned the same lessons you did & much more over 35 years working at Lincoln Developmental Center taking care of & becoming very attached to these special people whose parents missed out on what we have shared & learned from our citizens like Sam. I know how trying it can be, & my hat is off to you & your family. Give Sam a hug for me & tell him others know he's SPECIAL. "

Great letter wrote on Oct 16, 2007 6:18 PM:

" At my first job as a teenager, there were several Down Syndrome teens/adults working there through an assisted living program. I always admired their upbeat attitude and willingness to work and the way they would try their hardest at everything. They were so grateful to have a job and contribute to society, unlike most of the "normal" kids working there. Downs folks will always have a special place in my heart! "

Robin, OT wrote on Oct 16, 2007 4:21 PM:

" MaryAnn, thank you for sharing Sam's wonderful story. What a true testimony to the value and dignity of every human life. I am so thrilled to read about Sam, or as I remember him, Sammy. I haven't seen him since he was a baby, and we were working on sitting up, how much he has grown into what sounds like an outstanding young man. But you are right, he taught me about the beauty of life, and I still remember his bright smile, it would light up the room. Take care and God Bless. "

Wonderful letter... wrote on Oct 16, 2007 12:07 PM:

" I agree whole heartedly. I grew up with a Great Aunt that had down syndrome. She loved everyone and had a heart of gold. A person that would never do anything to hurt others, and sometimes I wish that I could find joy in small things as easily as she could. I think it's important for everyone to have an experience of spending quality time with down syndrome individuals... you will never regret the lessons you learn.... "

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