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km wrote on Jun 25, 2008 11:45 AM:

" I think the problem here is pedophila. I don't feel it has anything to do with being gay. Gay men are attracted to men not children. I also don't feel it is any more often happening in the Catholic Church. The problem seems to be how the church is dealing with it . I think the church, schools or anyone else that passes this problem along to some one else, has to bear some responsibility for the crimes that are committed. The churches, schools and the community need to step up to put and end to this huge problem.
too many children are forever suffering because of this horrible crime. "

isabelle wrote on Jun 25, 2008 11:19 AM:

" Excellent. I'm really glad to hear about these facts coming from somewhere other than the church. :) "

lbr2000 wrote on Jun 25, 2008 10:42 AM:

" I learned in my Psychology studies that statistics do show that the majority of these cases are with heterosexual males. Just FYI. "

qt196 wrote on Jun 25, 2008 7:53 AM:

" To isabelle: Do your homework. You can research and find the "facts" anywhere. You seem to think that the church made up these statistics. They didn't. "

isabelle wrote on Jun 24, 2008 3:52 PM:

" Hey, The Cat... "It also appears that these alleged “proven facts” cited by qt196 are more a smoke screen for homosexual activity rather than real evidence."

This may be the first time we agree with each other! :) High five? "

The Cat wrote on Jun 24, 2008 3:11 PM:

" “(un)reasonable”: When you have an emphasis on condoms and the results still are a higher pregnancy rate and a higher STD rate than years ago then the concept of "education" in sex ed seems to be missing unless it is related to the mechanics and birth control measures rather than the consequences of promiscuous sexual activity. “Isabelle/qt196”: Since many of these cases seem to be an adult male having a relationship with a minor male it appears to follow more the NAMBLA model than some repressed heterosexual urges. It also appears that these alleged “proven facts” cited by qt196 are more a smoke screen for homosexual activity rather than real evidence. Remember too, a traditional marriage has been cover for homosexual activity without the pedophilia aspect being present. It wouldn’t be the first time that someone engaged in kinky behavior camouflaged their activity. It also wouldn’t be the first time that a situation like the one cited in this letter was a false charge either against a Catholic cleric. "

The Cat wrote on Jun 24, 2008 2:48 PM:

" "I like toast": Teachers and others in positions of power abusing children is the same as priests so why the focus on Catholic clerics? On the ACLU in MA, they are involved in a case where a group that advocates adult male sexual activity with minor males has a website that is a “how to seduce” manual that resulted in a death of a middle school boy. On the Boy Scouts, if the funding source is the United Way and groups like Planned Parenthood can receive funding why can’t the Scouts? There is also the Philadelphia/BSA issue where the BSA donated property they were using for activities to the city, maintained the property at their expense, and the city then denied them use for PC reasons. Their issue isn’t religion; it is preventing possible suits for molestation. On sex ed, basic education on the biology and ramifications of human sex in high school is not the problem; indoctrination at younger and younger ages in grade school sponsored by interest groups like Planned Parenthood and GLAD is not “education, but propaganda "

isabelle wrote on Jun 24, 2008 9:02 AM:

" qt: Well considering your relation of the facts and mine are nearly identical, it seems obvious that I listened as well as you did. However, I maintain a healthy skepticism of these "facts". "

let's be reasonable wrote on Jun 24, 2008 12:50 AM:

" Cat, your are over the edge with this statement:

"including our “sex education” programs in the public schools and stressed a “do it since it feels good” attitude."

Nothing could be further from the truth. "

qt196 wrote on Jun 23, 2008 11:47 PM:

" You must not have listened during your training session. I have been to such sessions, and the leaders there discuss how the overwhelming majority of molesters are heterosexual men. This is a proven fact, not just the "stance of the church." Haven't you heard about all the kids who've been molested by their own fathers, who are (or have been) married with children? I've said it before, and I'll say it again: pedophilia and homosexuality are not related. "

isabelle wrote on Jun 23, 2008 7:39 PM:

" To "The Cat", regarding "First, odd how most of these incidents are frequently the conduct of gay clerics but gay activity in the general population is a “right” or accepted or an “alternative lifestyle”. "

I was taught by the Catholic church during a training session that the cases of pedophilia in the clergy are not cases of homosexuality. The information presented to me insisted that adult males who are attracted to young boys are almost always generally attracted to adult women, not men. The pedophilia in these cases is allegedly an attraction to their own childhood, not the boy. They claim these pedophiles are straight.

I don't know how I feel about this; to me it seems like the Catholics are just trying to blatantly ignore homosexual pedophilia as they'd like to deny the existence of homosexuality in general. But thought I'd let you know that's the stance of the church. "

I Like toast wrote on Jun 23, 2008 1:22 PM:

" The Cat: Regarding your last post. Point 1 the gay lifestyle, it's an issue because they are using their power to abuse children, not just being with consenting adults in private time. Point#2 I recall several stories here about teachers abusing students in Unit 5 plus some gymnastics coaches in the Chicago area have some issues with their teenage students. Heard of any pretty blond 20 something teachers and their 14 year old students? 3. Boy Scouts of America discriminating against gay scountmasters is fine, as long as they don't want public money. All the ACLU wants to do is make sure peoples 1st Amendment Rights are not violated. Once acts cross the line, it's different than a group publishing their mission. 4. Sex Ed. Not all parents feel comfortable getting into every little detail about sex. In school, sex ed teachers can be a little more open about issues without the parent -child thing getting involved. I know parents should get over it, but people are different and it is just difficult for some to talk about it, and sex ed in school is beneficial. "

4mama wrote on Jun 21, 2008 2:26 PM:

" I am Catholic, and I currently attend Epiphany Church. I don't know Maloney although I have seen him a few times. All I know is that the actions of one person affect many others. One priest, teacher, police officer(Pelo) who does things that hurt others will cause all of that profession to suffer. I don't know if the allegations are true or not, but I do know that all priests, even those most holy and upright, have been hurt by the sex scandal caused by others. I have several priest friends who I am very close to, including some of those at Epiphany. I would lay down my life defending my friends. I am absolutely convinced that they would never do anything like this. They are human, and are sinners just like the rest of us, but they are not perverted. They dedicate their life to God out of love. "

Interested One wrote on Jun 19, 2008 2:12 PM:

" To "Reasonable": In addition to the fine post from "Cats," I would kindly refer you to an article printed by the Christian Science Monitor in 2002 at the height of the Catholic sex-abuse scandal that talked about the outstandingly high number of protestant sex abuse cases that seemed to be flippantly dismissed by the secular media. I would encourage you to read the article and verify its research independently before unilaterally condemning the Catholic priesthood: www.csmonitor.com/2002/0405/p01s01-ussc.html. "

The Cat wrote on Jun 19, 2008 9:03 AM:

" (un)reasonable: Some observations on your anti-Catholic comment: First, odd how most of these incidents are frequently the conduct of gay clerics but gay activity in the general population is a “right” or accepted or an “alternative lifestyle”. Second, the Catholic Church incidents get a lot of press because it's PC to do so but incidents by teachers, coaches, Protestant ministers, muslim clerics, Jewish rabbis, counselors, etc. get more of a pass from the press. Third, there are some odd double standards here like the Boy Scouts getting excoriated for not allowing gay scoutmasters and denied funding sources or access to facilities for their position on an issue intended to avoid this type of problem while the ACLU is going out of its way to support NAMBLA in a MA legal case. Fourth, perhaps the reason why the issue in general is more prevalent in the US today is we have gone out of our way to sexualize the culture including our “sex education” programs in the public schools and stressed a “do it since it feels good” attitude. "

Geez! wrote on Jun 19, 2008 8:09 AM:

" To "Lets be reasonable" - your ignorance is astounding. We are now all dumber for having read your post. "

SpeakerOfTruth wrote on Jun 18, 2008 12:14 PM:

" This pastor wouldn't have been accused if there was still prayer in schools "

let's be reasonable wrote on Jun 18, 2008 11:49 AM:

" It is amazing how problematic the priesthood is in the U.S. when compared to clergy in other faiths. "

Oh, behave... wrote on Jun 18, 2008 9:21 AM:

" I don't know this man and, even if I did, I wasn't there at the scene, so I won't say he did these things, but I will say that it's not beyond any man of "good repute" to do so. The people who do these things often have a very strong drive for this deviancy. They actually fool themselves into thinking they are providing a "service" to the young man, helping him "learn." Yet they know, deep down, it is wrong, for they know enough to do it in secret. We all need to learn that, if we couldn't stand to see it broadcast on ABC, then we shouldn't do it! That would stop a lot of wrong behavior. It never works, though, because priests know that God is watching and even THAT isn't enough. My heart truly goes out to all victims of such abuse and I pray that they will be able to break the cycle because I think that, often, the people who do this are acting out something they suffered themselves, trying to reach some sort of closure. "

Jwill wrote on Jun 17, 2008 5:28 PM:

" Michael Jackson is a caring individual that gives to others, but we think he does the same things. I've been to masses this guy did. I couldn't even understand him because he sounded drunk (not saying he was) and he ran through it so fast that we were in and out in 25 minutes. Lets be honest, you people loved him because he got you in and out of church on Sunday quickly. I wouldn't trust him. "

vzbb wrote on Jun 17, 2008 2:10 PM:

" Just because there isn't any proof doesn't mean it never happened. Lots of people are molested everyday and if there's no proof it's always your word against theirs. That unfortunately happened to me. He got away with it but now him and his family have to live with it and I don't have to do it alone anymore. God will judge him when the time comes and he will get his. "

The Cat wrote on Jun 17, 2008 8:41 AM:

" Why do we only hear about these issues when it affects the Catholic Church and not the growing number of incidents in public schools? Why aren't their more suits against school districts when similar cases are discovered concerning teachers and administrators? "

The Peanut Gallery wrote on Jun 16, 2008 3:30 PM:

" To all:

Why was it necessary to publish the photographs? If they are truly victims, then the Pantagraph editors should ask themselves this question: "Haven't they been through enough as it is?" Good grief! "

The Peanut Gallery wrote on Jun 16, 2008 9:20 AM:

" I am conflicted about these allegations. First - if children were victimized, there should be some sort of restitution, if for no other reason than to guarantee that there will be funds available for their counseling. But, Second - I am disgusted by the Pantagraph's rush to sensationalize its publication with a MERE allegation of wrongdoing. There seems to be little concern for the intentional destruction of Maloney's reputation WITHOUT PROOF OF ANY SORT.

But - what the heck - it sells papers, doesn't it? "

CharlieHustle wrote on Jun 16, 2008 8:33 AM:

" I am behind you 100% Andrew. "

Oh, behave... wrote on Jun 16, 2008 12:59 AM:

" 4Mama, what an interesting question. Why would a man put himself in a position to risk double jeapardy? Many years ago, I urged a teacher to be careful not to have young students over to his house (like I knew he was) because another teacher was publicly fighting accusations at the time. Years down the line, I find out that this man had abused my son...at that very time I was urging him to be careful! Such people must have a very strong drive to molest young boys. It must overcome even their ability to reason. Each child you have is like a pot of soup. You can vouch for what you put in it! When you have a child that's been abused, it's as if you've made a fine pot of soup but, when your back was turned, someone put a spider in it. Pieces of that spider will continue to surface over the years, troubling the victim, causing them to act out, and you can never be totally confident in the ingredients ever again. "

4mama wrote on Jun 15, 2008 10:37 PM:

" This entire situation is tragic in the pain and mistrust that is to be had by all if the allegations are true or not. There is one good thing that can come from this though. Pastors, teachers, scout leaders, etc need to protect themselves from even the possibilities of allegations by keeping doors open and not being alone with kids. It is sad that the world has come to this point, but it is common practice to follow these rules in many institutions. Children also need to be informed of inappropriate behavior to watch out for and they need to be told to report it to a trusted adult.

My only question for Msgr. Maloney is why he allowed himself to be in a situation where these allegations could be made if he had already been accused of inappropriate behavior before. One false accusation would have had me heartbroken and running for cover, and I would have never again put myself into that position.

Pope John Paul II and Cardinal Bernidin were both falsely accused and handled the situation with faith and grace and were both proved innocent. "

Big Red wrote on Jun 15, 2008 7:03 PM:

" To the families. Money wont help ease anything if the allegations are true. Bottom line we will all be judged by the only court that matters. Father "white sox" Maloney will be judged by God and he will be vindicated or punished and that is all that matters. "

bobby wrote on Jun 15, 2008 11:54 AM:

" I think you need to refect on a couple of main factors here. You are dealing with a Mother who was totally involved with the Church, from being a Eucharistic minister, to singing at Masses to visting the sick--she had major credibilty within the Church membership. I doubt the money is the issue. As some of you have pointed out the issues their son experienced are typical for people who have suffered by abuse. Many commit suicide, get involved with drugs, alcohol and the law. I doubt money is the motivation here--exposing the situation and protecting others is. I also think that many of you who support Maloney wouldn't believe any of this even you were present watching the abuse. Sometimes we are in complete denial of things we don't want to believe. Totally understandable--BUT. "

wasnthim wrote on Jun 13, 2008 5:06 PM:

" why has the pantagraph not looked into both the victim and the accused characters here? If they would run a story about what has caused Ward's run in and troubles with the law. It would shut a lot of people up about this for the exposure of the true individuals are in this case. "

DLee wrote on Jun 13, 2008 2:45 PM:

" TO Cards fan "I just find it hard to believe someone would come forward with these allegations publicly if there were not true" Are you serious? You've never heard of someone providing false allegations for financial gain? I don't care what happens in this case but the reality is that false allegations occur everyday. In fact, do some research on false allegations involving church abuse cases. I'll give you a hint, there was a rather famous one in Chicago. And that isn't the only one. Is this kid telling the truth? Who knows, but the attorney certainly wants us to believe that as he is apparently trying the case in public knowing full well the priest will not respond. "

STLCrdnls wrote on Jun 13, 2008 2:01 PM:

" As a CCHS grad, I was extremely sad to see this news. While I have no idea where (or if) guilt lies, but it seems that much of this discussion has become disrespectful and accusatory in one way or another. I just find it hard to believe someone would come forward with these allegations publicly if there were not true; from some comments below it is clear the trials the alleged victim will go through REGARDLESS of the outcome of this mess. Additionally, I must support others who have said that "trouble with the law" and "poor decisions" are common responses to the trauma of abuse. Also, read the local news story surrounding probably 99% of these abuse cases and everyone will probably said, “But he was such a great man!” Great men can sometimes do horrible deeds. Hopefully this is not the case here. While I PRAY that these accusations are not true, I cannot for one moment ridicule or disregard someone who has had the strength and courage to come forward. Let's just hope this is taken care of quickly and efficiently to spare further trauma for parties involved. "

Epiphany Grad wrote on Jun 13, 2008 8:58 AM:

" I went to Epiphany at the time Father Tom was there. All these parents that are posting saying that their kids loved Father Tom. Well... of course who wouldn't. He would take us out to lunch, if we served a funeral for him we got to skip class all the time and he would say 20 min. masses. What kid wouldn't want a priest like that ? We were always around him, and yet there were some of us that always had an uneasy feeling about him. I am not going to say what if I think this is true or not, becasue there are to sides to every story. Parents don't realize what their kids dont tell them. "

normalperson wrote on Jun 13, 2008 6:20 AM:

" When someone files suit they make a claim for either under $50,000 or more than $50,000.00. Trust me-these people are looking for MORE than 50k-more like millions........ "

nwa708 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 7:05 PM:

" I have been a member of the parish for 46 years. I went to Epiphany when Father Maloney was a your priest there, my kids have gone to Epiphany, so I want to believe it's not true. Our family received one of the letters they sent out last year and it was quite shocking. I have to wonder why if this family is just looking for an easy payoff, then why only ask for around 50,000 dollars? Let's not pre-judge the family or Father too quickly. I hope the courts get to the truth. "

duckie wrote on Jun 12, 2008 5:56 PM:

" To "Januaray" I feel that I am sencing some sort of jealousy being that you were not included in one of those "groups" whose "families who put their kids through the Catholic school system and families with long-standing social ties to his home community." I was put through the Catholic school system grade school through high school and my family has a very long-standing tie to his home community. I was often one of those kids that you would see in his car during the school day. They were rewards for certain accomplishments and acheivements we had made. Every child had their time where they were included in an outing. I was never touched inappropiately nor was any other child I was with. I find it hard to believe that any of this is true. For those of you that are suporting of Monsignor Maloney please keep him in your prayers, as his health is not doing so well. With all of his supporters backing him up I know he will be strong and have a healthy outcome! "

andrea082 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 5:23 PM:

" This is outrageous!! I have known this man my whole life and there is no way any of this could be true. I am extremely angered by these accusations against such a great man of God and a caring individual. You have my full and total support, Father Tom! Good luck! "

normalperson wrote on Jun 12, 2008 5:07 PM:

" People should be innocent until proven guilty. The criminal investigation showed nothing except allegations. Msgr. Maloney is truly a man of greatness. He has done so much for so many kids. He spent hours with CCD kids, Epiphany schoold kids and kids from throughout the community. He has always been a strong supporter of those most in need. He truly is a great man. "

andrea082 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 5:02 PM:

Collegekid wrote on Jun 12, 2008 4:47 PM:

" January I have been apart of this Church for 20 plus years and attended public schools. Monsignor Maloney never treated me like I was not good enough. In fact he was the only reason I enjoyed church, I would show up 10 minutes before mass and he would ask me to serve mass even though I wasn’t trained. I liked that he made me apart of church. I just wanted to clear that up because he was a good man and I think there is enough false statements about him that we do not need to add to. Also to who said that Monsignor Maloney niceness is the type of person who gets close to kids and then hurts them, that is just silly. Monsignor Maloney never made me feel uncomfortable, he was truly a great person who loved and cared about others! "

floyd wrote on Jun 12, 2008 4:44 PM:

" children who were molested do wind up with emotional problems and do get in trouble with the law especially if they haven't dealt with it thru some serious counseling. "

apartment_story wrote on Jun 12, 2008 4:23 PM:

" I'd also like to point out that I am close in age to the victim and knew Maloney when I was quite young (I attended church when he was a priest in Lexington). I adored him and don't remember any inappropriate behavior. But again, that doesn't mean anything. People who sexually abuse children often "hand-pick" certain ones and, of course, part of a pedophile's behavior is grooming the child to stay silent about the abuse. I find the comments on here appalling. It takes a lot of courage to come forward about sexual abuse and I personally don't think I could handle abusive remarks on top of that. Maloney might be innocent until proven guilty, but in all fairness we have to extend that same courtesy to the victim: truthful until proven otherwise. The whole thing about women (and sometimes men) "crying rape" is a huge myth (usually limited to "oh, well my friend had this friend who..." lore) and really damages the credibility of the people who have the bravery to come forward. No wonder rape and other sexual abuse go mostly unreported! "

Charlemagne wrote on Jun 12, 2008 3:51 PM:

" to January:
I am, as you put it "outside the circle" and hardly know him. But he always seemed really kind and helped out my family (even though we had nothing to do with the school) sorry you are so thinned skinned that him not saying "hi" really got to you. "

The other Dave wrote on Jun 12, 2008 3:31 PM:

" To January, here is exactly what you said "I saw non-school parishioners who gave many hours and money to school and church causes throughout Maloney's tenure who were never even acknowledged with a "hi, how are you," let alone a "thanks for what you do." While I have no knowledge of sexual abuse, I have first hand knowledge of behavior unbecoming of a person in his position. I truly believe those in his circle saw nothing but a great man, but those outside his circle would have no problem seeing the potential for these charges to be accurate."

He did not say "hi, how are you" so you see "the potential for these charges to be accurate". Weird logic. "

a thought wrote on Jun 12, 2008 3:25 PM:

" People thought John Wayne Gacy was awonderful, loving and caring person.
It was'nt untill one boy got away and found help. Thats when the full horror was
see by all. So this young man came out to get help with what had happend to him.
All you can see is he was in trouble and moved to diffrent schools, well HELLO !!
I think you all need to read about the trauma of sexual abuse. "

january wrote on Jun 12, 2008 3:12 PM:

" To The Other Dave, that's not what I said and you know it... "

The other Dave wrote on Jun 12, 2008 2:51 PM:

" To January, so he did not say Hi to you. Therefore, he must be guilt. That is great logic. "

january wrote on Jun 12, 2008 2:37 PM:

" There are two sides to every story, and two sides to many people. Those supporting Maloney are most likely from a couple of groups--families who put their kids through the Catholic school system and families with long-standing social ties to his home community. As a long time parishioner in neither of those groups I saw a parish that offered next to nothing for non-Epiphany School kids. I saw an unusually close bond between the "top guy" and the school kids, often seeing him out and about with a carload of kids during school hours. I saw non-school parishioners who gave many hours and money to school and church causes throughout Maloney's tenure who were never even acknowledged with a "hi, how are you," let alone a "thanks for what you do." While I have no knowledge of sexual abuse, I have first hand knowledge of behavior unbecoming of a person in his position. I truly believe those in his circle saw nothing but a great man, but those outside his circle would have no problem seeing the potential for these charges to be accurate. "

The other Dave wrote on Jun 12, 2008 2:37 PM:

" To Tucker, maybe the police and the DA have done nothing because there is nothing to substantiate this claim? "

hopeful wrote on Jun 12, 2008 1:22 PM:

" I too watched the documentary "Deliver us From Evil" and found it to be eye-opening as well as heartbreaking. I really think that everyone should watch it before saying it could never happen to someone you know/love/trust. "

Maxine wrote on Jun 12, 2008 1:18 PM:

" Father Tom was a good man and always took the time with his parishoners, wherever he could catch up to them, which in my case was at work in the auto repair shop down the street from the rectory. Often he would laugh at my lapses between coming to Mass, but never judged me. So, I won't judge him in this. I pray that he will be judged by a higher power rather than people perhaps seeking a quick dollar. Only they know what really occured, if anything. I for one stand behind Fr. White Sox all the way!! He so enjoyed being a part of St. Joseph's parish and was always there when needed, always. Let's be there for him!! "

tucker wrote on Jun 12, 2008 1:04 PM:

" So why are there no criminal charges filed? What did the Normal PD learn in their nearly year-long investigation? Yes, I heard rumors of this last year and I heard about the letter Mrs. Ward sent out but I don't understand why there are no criminal charges. Can someone explain that to me? "

hwks440 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 1:01 PM:

" funny how out of all the children at epiphany grade school the only person who comes forward is a 20 year old, that has been kicked out of several high schools and has been in and out jail and in trouble with the law. Maybe this could be an excuse to get out of trouble? maybe not. But innocent till proven guilty. "

3cents wrote on Jun 12, 2008 12:54 PM:

" I have no doubt this family is suffering if their 20yr old is at home, working part time, battling depression and problems with the law. They have my sympathy. However, they are accusing a man that is loved by, and has positively influenced, literally thousands of people over his 36 years in the priesthood. Fr. Tom has been a friend of mine, my family’s, and my community for 32 years. He helped build my faith as a young person by being equal parts friend and pastor, as he has been with many. His work with the youth of the church has opened him up to these accusations and I hope he will be exonerated.
Why haven’t more come forward after the letter? Why the switch in gender among the accusers? Why a civil ($) lawsuit with no criminal charges? Why does the disclosure at 19 seem unusual to the expert?
This family has a lot of questions to answer for the courts and themselves.
1 + 1 is not making 2 "

apartment_story wrote on Jun 12, 2008 12:51 PM:

" I find it disheartening that people are so certain of the truth. I recently watched a documentary about the priest sex abuse scandal ("Deliver Us from Evil"), which told the story of priest who molested children in his parish from the 1970s until the 1900s. Instead of being defrocked, he was simply sent to different parishes where he continued his predatory behavior. One of the families who chose to share their story had no idea. They trusted him, allowed him to sleep over, and noticed nothing in his behavior that suggested he was capable of the things he did. These were not ignorant people. Nonetheless, he raped their five-year-old daughter on several occasions. "

bailey wrote on Jun 12, 2008 12:31 PM:

" The most recent poll calculated that the Catholic church obtains 67.2 million members while Methodist (8.2 mil) and Lutheran (4.9 mil) trail behind. As a Catholic myself it is noticeable that with such a large group in today's society it is easy for others to pick on it.

I grew up having Father Tom as my priest for nearly 17 years until he switched parishes. I will continue to support him through this. If the accusations are true then let the cards fall where they may. Until then, I think everyone should stop bantering back and forth. Freedom of Speech, yes I understand but in the end, we're not the ones to make final judgement. "

cubbie girl wrote on Jun 12, 2008 12:02 PM:

" Everyone says that "Catholics are hussy's and alcholics and all the priests are molesters" Thats not true! People are quick to judge and label! It really is sad! "

hopeful wrote on Jun 12, 2008 11:54 AM:

" Aren't most pedophiles "loved" by children? They use all these great qualities that are spoken of to get close the children, then abuse their trust. I am not saying that in this case that is how it was, but it certainly is in others. Just because he was good with children and they "flocked" to him, does not mean he is innocent. Also, just because other kids that were involved with him weren't molested, again doesn't mean others weren't. A lot of times pedophiles only prey on the weak or the ones that they think won't tell. "

RealityCheck wrote on Jun 12, 2008 11:45 AM:

" tabtime, please don't take the vicious comments personally. The anonymity of the Internet allows the worst in people to come out in full force.

As for the belief that allowing priests to marry would allieviate the problem, the two truly are not related. Pedophilia is a deviation based on a mental illiness. Marriage would not resolve the urges. "

Reddog wrote on Jun 12, 2008 11:29 AM:

" My children have known Monsignor Maloney since they were small children and often were very close to him. They stand behind him 100% and are completely shocked, as are we, that these charges have been filed against him. A wonderful man who just happened to love children and did everything for them. Who else would pass out Easter eggs during the Mass to children at Easter? Who else would take a group for pizza? He was loved by the children, teachers and parishioners at Epiphany. Since the State's Attorney's office did not file any charges we believe that the Normal police found no true evidence backing up these charges. As for prior charges - freedom of speech seems to allow anyone to make any kind of comments about anything. "

ILFriend wrote on Jun 12, 2008 11:20 AM:

" I have known this man my whole life, he has had a major part in our family as well. To say something and to pass judgment is very sad to hear. I know from personal experience this man would not hurt a fly let alone a person. I have been alone with him on several occasion, and at no time was there ever an uncomfortable point. He makes you feel wanted and loved when all others don't. He is a father figure as well as a friend to all. I know God does not give you what you can not handle and will make stronger. My heart goes out to him and I pray for all those involved. "

ricco wrote on Jun 12, 2008 11:15 AM:

" I became acquainted with Monsignor Maloney when he began his assignment as Pastor of Epiphany Parish. I have two children who attended Epiphany and served Mass with him. The Monsignor was, in my opinion, the epitome of a great parish priest. The children adored him and literally flocked to him. He made holiday Masses and First Communion very special for the children. He worked hard for the benefit of his parishioners. Of course, there are two sides to every story. If the matter alleged in the lawsuit goes to trial, I will listen to both sides. If I am convinced the Plaintiff is telling the truth, I will be deeply saddened to learn my trust was misplaced. Today, however, I still believe in the goodness and kindness of the Monsignor. In talking with others, I feel there are many who believe the same. For all concerned, I hope this matter can be concluded in an expeditious manner. "

tatbtime wrote on Jun 12, 2008 11:02 AM:

" I am sorry if I sounded like a simple simon,however, I am being sincere in my request. I know that abuse goes on everywhere, however, alot of daddy's would never touch a child in an inapropriate way, same as Priests, only takes 1 to ruin it for all. I stopped posting awhile back because people were rude and used ugly names for things that they disagreed with, I don't think these kind of things should be allowed, it is called RESPECT for others. I am a very sincere person, with feelings, and truly wanted to know why Priests cannot marry, it was not a slam or a "funny" I feel the 2 items are related. I will not post again, I don't post to be called names or have my feelings hurt. "

RealityCheck wrote on Jun 12, 2008 10:19 AM:

" pseudo-intellectual and Dave - the Timothy verses are not saying that priests are forbidden to marry. They are saying that "in last times" some people will abandon the faith and follow deceitful demons (4:1). These people will be liars (4:2) and will try to stop others from marrying and eating foods which God has created to be received with thanksgiving by those who know the truth (4:3). These passages have nothing to do with the tradition of priests not being allowed to marry.

But this is slightly off-topic. Whether or not priests are allowed to marry has nothing to do with pedophilia. Unfortuntely, pedophiles exist in all races, religions, social spectrums and marital statuses.

For the record, I'm suspicious of the allegations. Perception is reality. I hope this young man finds healing but not at the expense of a potentially innocent man. "

normal1s wrote on Jun 12, 2008 10:12 AM:

" Jesus was innocent too! "

normal1s wrote on Jun 12, 2008 10:11 AM:

" To Nic: Yes, I read the whole article. The paragraph begins with "Ward contends". "

altarboy wrote on Jun 12, 2008 10:04 AM:

" Allegations maybe. Dismissed without merit, yes. Anyone can make an allegation in an attempt to discredit someone. Like I said before who would want to serve as clergy in this litigious society. "

ambkeys wrote on Jun 12, 2008 9:53 AM:

" "the honorary title of monsignor in 2000" is not exactly true. Monsignor is an actual ecclesiastical title, not an honorary one. A Monsignor has specific rights and duties similar to a Bishop (or a Senator for that matter) that are practical rather than honorary.

A Monsignor may be honored by receiving a title, but the job of Monsignor itself is certainly a real part of the Catholic Hierarchy. "

nic wrote on Jun 12, 2008 9:34 AM:

" Did any of you read the whole article? There were prior allegations of abuse made to the diocese. He's not the only one that's accused this man of sexual abuse. "

ambkeys2 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 9:28 AM:

2448 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 9:20 AM:

" Not true! Father Maloney is the greatest! I went to the Catholic schools and his siter was our Dean and we seen him on a regular basis. He would never have done this. Standing behind you 100% Father! "

PoorJimmy wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:52 AM:

" The case will hinge upon whether they can prove any prior knowledge of abuse by church officials. If not I would imagine the word of a 19 year old who has had trouble with the law won't amount to much this long after the fact. "

ajdavi wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:50 AM:

" I do not know this priest and the "alleged" victim. All I have to say is that Monsignor Maloney is innocent until proven guilty. I pray for all involved including Epiphany Church members. The same thing happened to my church in Lincoln over ten years ago now and we are still dealing with the aftermath of it all. I will not sit here and bash the Catholic Church as this happens to people who belong to all sorts of groups. I will, however, say that I hope the Diocese of Peoria does not do the same for Maloney as they did for my priest and simply pay off the "alleged" victim. If you put this man into ordination, you should know and trust him. Support him so that his name is not ruined! "

observation8 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:48 AM:

" Just curious....how can you really prove or disprove the allegations? It happened years ago, with no witnesses, I assume. So does it come down to whose testimony is more convincing, or emotional? If it's true, it's sad for the abused. If it's false, it ruins the reputation of the priest, despite the verdict. Can he then sue for lible or slander? Not taking a side, just don't know how even a court can decide truth when people are so prone to lying. "

abcd123 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:47 AM:

" to 110100100 - unfortunately, the Catholic Church would have to stand behind a long, long, long line of institutions that throw money at problems "

curliegirlie wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:36 AM:

" blm1--i agree. the pantagraph must've been scrapping for a suitable picture or something. they're treating the kid like he died. true... it's wrong if it happened but let's not blow it out of proportion here. "

altarboy wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:35 AM:

" There is no way this could ever be proven. So what is the goal? $50,000 ? In the long run it is chump change. But, if I was in trouble with the law and had a lengthy history of poor judgement, I might want to blame someone else too. These type of accusations could happen to any man at any time from a women, or a child and can soil your reputation in the court of public opinion forever. Who in their right mind would want to join the clergy today in this type of enviroment . "

110100100 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:31 AM:

" Don't worry, the Catholic church will just throw money at this problem. That's their version of justice.

Tooltime - Oh! So being gay and molesting children are the same thing!? That's a clever analogy! "

km wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:28 AM:

" I assume they are holding pictures of the boy to show old he was when this happened. Most victims do not want to tell anyone out of fear of blame and are afraid no one will believe them. I'm sure this family thought long and hard abount coming forward and being brave enough to use their names. "

illinialumni wrote on Jun 12, 2008 8:28 AM:

" The Bible is a great source of law. For instance, read Exodus Chapter 21 if you want to know about the proper way to treat and maintain your slaves. Give the Bible thumping and ignorant banter a rest. I know Fr. Maloney and hope to God that this accusation is false but I am unwilling to write off the accusations until I know more than what I read in a Pantagraph story. "

tucker wrote on Jun 12, 2008 7:56 AM:

" Father Tom was an assistant priest at Epiphany when I was a kid. He was pastor when I returned to the area as an adult. My brothers and son served as altar boys with him and there was NEVER anything inappropriate. I pray to God this isn't true. "

sarcasto wrote on Jun 12, 2008 7:54 AM:

" To those who doubt, do you really think people sit around at home and think, hmmm..I think I'll make up some allegations about my former priest today because I have nothing better to do?

Really???

What if this was your child? "

Tooltime wrote on Jun 12, 2008 7:52 AM:

" Maybe this man was born this way - then it would be ok, right? Well that is what all the people bashing another pastor in town say. It is his choice, right? "

why wrote on Jun 12, 2008 7:07 AM:

" There is no possible way Mongsignor Maloney could have done this. He is a wonderful, giving person who always puts others before himself. We support you & love you Father Tom. "

blm1 wrote on Jun 12, 2008 7:04 AM:

" ok, I have a dumb question. Why is the family holding pictures of the boy? Usually when people have been molested they do not want others to know who they are especially when it is a small child. I realize he is older now, but still... "

Country Boy wrote on Jun 12, 2008 6:53 AM:

" how does letting a priest marry keep them from molesting children of the same sex? There is no logic there. Also where is MRS's quotes on this topic? She has been bashing homosexuality on all the other post, so here is one of her "own" accused of molesting a young man. I really want to hear her view on this one... "

davidil wrote on Jun 12, 2008 6:40 AM:

" I would love to read an article about all of the good the Church does! God Bless all involved! "

bloom wrote on Jun 12, 2008 6:07 AM:

" Note that this is a civil suit, not a criminal suit. The Normal Police Department conducted an investigation, and no charges were filed. Anyone can file a civil suit. "

Dave wrote on Jun 11, 2008 11:59 PM:

" Here are the verses about doctrines of devils and forbidding to marry

1 Timothy 4:1 Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils;

1 Timothy 4:2 Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron;

1 Timothy 4:3 Forbidding to marry, [and commanding] to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth. "

T wrote on Jun 11, 2008 11:48 PM:

" Sorry folks I dont agree with you. If you allowed priests to marry there would be less issues like this. And to those that don't belive it COME on Stick your head in the sand once again. If convicted he won't last 1 day in prison. They don't like child molester there "

Charlemagne wrote on Jun 11, 2008 11:29 PM:

" I doubt this is true, I am not sure why so many people are jumping to conclusions. If it is true, that is horrible. If it is a lie, that is equally horrible. Either way, this has very little to do with the Catholic Church. There are bad apples in every group of people, and I am sure many priest have been falsely accused by people looking for attention, money or excuses on why their life is bad. Lets see how this plays out and assume innocence until proven guilty. "

iknowit wrote on Jun 11, 2008 11:14 PM:

" How can one defend himself when they are accused of a crime like this so many years later? No matter what happens, folks out there that don't know Monsignor Maloney will think of him as a criminal. This whole thing stinks. I know this man and I seriously doubt the accusations. "

runyon1996 wrote on Jun 11, 2008 10:51 PM:

" My thoughts and prayers are with you Andrew.
~Much Love~ "

alwayssomething wrote on Jun 11, 2008 10:43 PM:

" there is always 2 sides to every story....let the courts decide. "

Santo Fan wrote on Jun 11, 2008 10:39 PM:

" Hey Illinibloomer: He has been "accused" of this horrible act. So, until the charges are "proven" to be true, those of us who know this good man will stand at his side. Anyone can accuse anybody of anything at anytime.......we are fortunate that we live in a society where those allegations have to be proven to be true. Sounds like you would prefer a society where an accusation is a conviction. I wonder, would you feel the same way if someone had made false allegations about you or your family? I doubt it. "

cougr11 wrote on Jun 11, 2008 10:34 PM:

" I remember hearing about this from my family last year while I was away at school. I did not believe then and I do not believe it now. Msgr. Maloney is a great man and a very holy man. I always felt comfortable around him and would never think he could even do this. This man has devoted himself to the church. I support 100%. "

ktlin wrote on Jun 11, 2008 10:04 PM:

" What I want to know is how these people are going to stay in this church with this going on? I bet someone have been attending at least for 20 years. Can't you imagine how it is affecting them? How can they just sit there and allow this to happen? "

IlliniBloomer wrote on Jun 11, 2008 10:04 PM:

" I cannot believe how people can support a man that is accused of such a terrible crime. "

quintillian wrote on Jun 11, 2008 10:03 PM:

" First of all, there is no evidence that a priest is more likely to molest a child than any other adult male. However, such allegations are certainly newsworthy. Second, the primary profile of a molester is that of a *married* man.

That said, I've always respected Monsignor Maloney. May God bless all parties involved. There will certainly be enough pain for everybody concerned. "

MTG wrote on Jun 11, 2008 9:04 PM:

" Dear Pseudo-Intellectual, can you please tell me where in the bible it says that not being married is "doctrine of demons."

To tatbtime, the reason priests cannot marry is born out of tradition that later became Canon Law (Catholic doctrine). The theory is if they are not married they can be fully dedicated to the church rather than to a wife and family. The thought is one cannot be fully dedicated to a family and the church.

Allowing priests to marry will not solve the problem as these men could still be priests. Other churches, school teachers, etc., have also been in the news recently regarding child molestation - some of these guys were in fact married. I don't think that has anything to do with. The sicko-s with this problem hide behind the veil of priesthood, or teacher, or spouse. Allowing priests to marry may solve some other issues, but not this one. "

cub wrote on Jun 11, 2008 9:02 PM:

" I was forced by my parents to go to this church growing up while maloney was there. I couldn't ever feel comfortable in that church and do not attend now. As far as if he did it, just watching the headlines, it seems par for the course i guess. Wonder if we'll ever know the truth. Bet that may put a little damper on the carnival. "

pseudo-intellectual wrote on Jun 11, 2008 8:39 PM:

" Simple Simon, no humans (priests or otherwise) are married to God or Jesus Christ. The Church itself is to become the Bride of Christ when He returns to this earth. "

buckeye wrote on Jun 11, 2008 8:29 PM:

" The Catholic church Leadership should all resign. "

CCHS grad wrote on Jun 11, 2008 8:21 PM:

" Monsignor Maloney is an great man. It is unfortunate that these accusations were made. He is a person who has always put others before himself. I hope he knows that for the 1 student who has made these accusations there are thousands of others who have nothing but positive and loving things to say about him. We stand by him and support him 100%. "

pseudo-intellectual wrote on Jun 11, 2008 8:20 PM:

" The Bible is not the basis of the Catholic teaching on celibacy. In fact the Bible says forbidding to marry is a "doctrine of demons." My research indicates this bizarre Catholic teaching stems from guilty feelings about sex on the part of the so-called "Fathers" of the early Church. "

qt196 wrote on Jun 11, 2008 8:10 PM:

" TO tatbtime: Pedophilia and the ability to marry have nothing to do with one another. Plenty of married men have molested children, just as many single men have not. The two are not related. "

jennylyn wrote on Jun 11, 2008 7:59 PM:

" there i just no excuse to beleived that this man done this i was a child in chenoa i lived across the street from this man for several years i was alone with him all the time in his house at the church were ever several of us children on that block were alone with him never once did he ever try or even suggest such an act i may not be a good catholic and follow my church like i should but i beleive people will have done on them as they do to others you have my support 100% father tom i love you "

Anon Comment wrote on Jun 11, 2008 7:41 PM:

" I cannot believe there is one ounce of truth to this. I've known this man almost all my life, and I'm in tears thinking of what he must be going through. Unbelievable... "

Epiphany Graduate wrote on Jun 11, 2008 7:11 PM:

" My brother and I attended Epiphany around the same time as this student. We were both very close with Father Maloney and refuse to believe these accusations. He was a very caring man who went out of his way for the students and parish member at Epiphany. He would never harm a child. This is unbelievable. "

Charlemagne wrote on Jun 11, 2008 6:57 PM:

" I "

student08 wrote on Jun 11, 2008 6:49 PM:

" priests being able to marry would not solve this problem. If Catholic priests were able to marry this would not be right because the priests would not be able to have a family and serve the Church. I for one am sick of it seeming like when priests mess up people blame the Catholic Church. Why do you blame the Church? "

mizer wrote on Jun 11, 2008 6:32 PM:

" Don't believe it one bit.

To: Tatbtime

Most child molesters are single men period....whats your point really? Are you saying that men that can marry will NOT molest children. You sound as ignorant as these allegations. "

Otown_boy wrote on Jun 11, 2008 6:28 PM:

" Pedophilia is a sick and perverse crime. Has nothing at all to do with the fact that priests cannot marry. "

Simple Simon wrote on Jun 11, 2008 6:12 PM:

" they are married to GOD "

tatbtime wrote on Jun 11, 2008 6:02 PM:

" What exactly is the reason that Catholic Priests cannot marry? I personally think this would eliminate most of the abuse. The Christian pastors can marry and have families. I have thought for along time, that marriage, might be the answer to this problem and I just wondered why they can't marry? "

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